Allyship for the transgender community is crucial act in the fostering a more inclusive and equitable society.
Transgender individuals often face significant challenges, including discrimination, violence, and social stigma, which can impact their mental health, access to healthcare, and overall quality of life.
Allies play a vital role in amplifying the voices of transgender people, challenging harmful narratives, and advocating for policies that protect their rights. By standing in solidarity with the transgender community, allies can help create safer spaces, promote understanding, and support the pursuit of justice and equality.
This collective effort uplifts marginalized voices and enriches our communities, promoting diversity and acceptance for all.
I’ve written some essays and articles over the years debunking myths and misunderstandings about the trans community.
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JUSTICE ENDS WHERE POLICING BEGINS: The Shameful History of Policing The Gay and Trans Community in Canada
Policing reform is routinely framed as a matter of training, oversight, or inclusive language. None of this resolves the central contradiction exposed by decades of violence against trans people: policing is a system built on discretion, not equality. It decides who belongs, who is suspect, and whose suffering is credible.
ROT AT THE CORE: How Transphobia Persists in Niagara’s Policing Culture
The former president of the Niagara Regional Police Association exemplifies systemic transphobia and homophobia in policing, perpetuating a culture of distrust. This issue highlights accountability failures, emphasizing the need for broader community responsibility in ensuring respect and equality for marginalized groups.
STEADY, UNBROKEN: A River of Reconciliation
This piece reflects on the significance of National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, emphasizing the importance of listening to land, honoring Indigenous truths, and taking action towards reconciliation. The author highlights personal experiences along the Grand River, advocating for stewardship and shared responsibility.
Why the Debate Over Transgender Kids in Sports Misses the Point
This content critiques the persistent targeting of transgender individuals, especially trans women, by conservatives under false pretenses of fairness and biology. It highlights the contradictions in their arguments, emphasizing that their true motives revolve around exclusion and bigotry, ultimately questioning the kind of inclusive society we aspire to build.
THE WALLS ARE CLOSING IN: A Dream of Erasure Becoming Reality
Sabrina shares her deep sense of dread stemming from societal attacks on transgender rights, particularly in the U.S. and Canada. She illustrates how anti-trans rhetoric fuels systemic erasure, threatening vulnerable youth while calling for collective resistance and solidarity.
REMEMBERING LIAM: Carrying the Fire Forward
Liam’s life was marked by passion for social justice and hidden struggles with addiction. Despite having immense potential and supportive relationships, he tragically lost his life to an overdose. His story highlights the urgent need for compassionate support in addressing addiction and the importance of genuine connections with loved ones.
WHEN CARE IS “SILLY” AND “DANGEROUS”: How Ontario’s Transgender Health Care Crisis Isn’t a Mystery—It’s Neglect
Sabrina recounts her challenging experience seeking transgender healthcare, highlighting systemic inequalities in Ontario. Despite clear medical guidelines, her family doctor dismissed valid requests for treatment. A significant percentage of trans individuals face unmet healthcare needs, necessitating urgent changes, including training for providers and increased funding for care.
MAYOR DIODATI’S WAR ON THE POOR: A Critical Look
Niagara Falls, led by Mayor Jim Diodati, targets the poor through punitive bylaws instead of supportive policies. This campaign criminalizes those asking for aid, neglecting their rights and worsening their already vulnerable situation.
THEY DEMANDED MY DEADNAME: Why I’m Taking the Niagara Regional Police Service to the Human Rights Tribunal
While filming a documentary in public, I was detained and pressured by Niagara Police to disclose my deadname—a name that no longer belongs to me. It was degrading, unlawful, and discriminatory. I’m fighting back through the Human Rights Tribunal to demand justice and dignity for all trans people.
IMAGINED THREATS, REAL HARM: What Jim Crow Taught Us About Today’s Transphobia
From Jim Crow to today’s anti-trans laws, fear-based myths have long been weaponized to justify discrimination. The rhetoric of “protecting women and children” isn’t about safety—it’s about control, and it continues to endanger marginalized communities under false pretenses.
How Authoritarian Policies Fail the Unhoused in St. Catharines
The City of St. Catharines faces escalating homelessness under Mayor Mat Siscoe and administrator David Oakes, who promote punitive measures instead of meaningful solutions. Their actions reflect a disregard for the unhoused, showcasing a deeper societal failure to address the root causes of homelessness.
STILL ME AND OTHER PRIVATE THOUGHTS: Finding Motivation, Living Authentically, and Letting Go of Regrets
I can vividly recall the moment when I first started to grapple with my gender identity, a realization that exposed the stark contrast between how I saw myself and how others perceived me. From a young age, I instinctively understood the need to mould myself into the version others desired, striving to keep the peace…
UNDERSTANDING PRIDE EVENTS: Advocacy Through Celebration (Pride in the Park 2025)
Pride Niagara’s attempts to collaborate with St. Catharines for a joint Pride Festival failed, leading to the cancellation of Pride in the Park. The City’s lack of support highlights ongoing struggles in advocating for 2SLGBTQQIA+ rights, visibility, and community engagement.
VOICES UNHEARD: The Fight for Trans Inclusion
The post critiques organizations claiming to support diversity but failing to include marginalized voices, particularly transgender individuals. It emphasizes that genuine inclusion requires listening to and elevating these communities, rather than merely discussing their needs without their participation or representation in decision-making processes.
The Struggles of Trans Individuals with Law Enforcement
In April 2019, Edmonton police mishandled a safety check for Marni Panas, a transgender woman. This incident highlighted systemic discrimination and neglect of transgender individuals by law enforcement, perpetuating fear and isolation within the community.
EMPOWERING ALLIES: Advocating for Transgender Healthcare Rights
Transgender individuals in Canada face significant healthcare disparities, struggling to access affirming care. The lack of training among providers and systemic barriers hinder progress, emphasizing the urgent need for allies to advocate for change and support inclusive practices.
Mat Siscoe and the Misuse of the Notwithstanding Clause in St. Catharines
Recently, news stories have reported that the mayor of St. Catharines supported the suspension of the charter. Let’s discuss Mat Siscoe’s misunderstanding and desire to abuse the notwithstanding clause in St. Catharines.
MISGENDERING BY POLICE: An Emotional Toll on Trans Individuals
When someone willfully or negligently misgenders another person, it causes significant emotional and psychological harm. Intent is almost secondary. Misgendering invalidates a person’s identity, sending a harmful message that their gender is not worthy of respect or recognition.
Why Anti-2SLGBTQQIA+ Claims Promote Fear and Misinformation
The article argues against baseless claims linking the 2SLGBTQQIA+ community to child grooming, highlighting the historical context of such propaganda, its harmful impact, and the need for solidarity and support for marginalized individuals.
Understanding Gender-Affirming Care for Trans Communities
The essay discusses the author’s experiences as a trans woman, the rise of disinformation regarding the trans community, and the importance of gender-affirming care. It emphasizes advocacy, critical thinking, and the role of reliable information in enhancing the well-being of transgender individuals.
- I DIDN’T PLAN TO BECOME A TEACHER: The Students Who Made Me Stay
- JUSTICE ENDS WHERE POLICING BEGINS: The Shameful History of Policing The Gay and Trans Community in Canada
- RAISED BY PLACES UNSEEN: The Quiet Way Borneo Found Me
- ALONE AGAINST THE SYSTEM: Fighting Police Misconduct in Ontario Means Surviving It
- PART 3 – NO PERMISSION NEEDED: What Was Once Shame Has Become Pride